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About the guest:

Lara Nuchowicz is a Principal and Next-Gen Allocator at AR Capital, where she runs the firm's private markets portfolio. She started attending investment meetings with her father at fifteen, deployed her first capital in 2017, and today sources, diligences, and monitors a portfolio of more than 80 venture funds while screening roughly 500 managers a year. She has also launched her own fund-of-funds platform, now raising its second vehicle, and hosts an invite-only family office retreat twice a year in Spain and Switzerland.

How Lara was brought into the family business

Lara’s father started bringing her to meetings at fifteen. The rooms held Chase Coleman at Tiger, Steve Cohen at Point72, and Jim Simons at Renaissance. She was not taking notes on strategy. As she puts it, "the only thing that I was amazed by was the floor of the buildings I was reaching."

The shift came in 2017, after college, when her father handed her capital to actually deploy. She started in the consumer and female health, sectors she could understand and where she could build real relationships with founders. She later moved into climate impact, something the family office had never done before.

"At this point, I realized that it was not just my father's business, but it was something that I was really part of and that I wanted to continue building."

The Family Philosophy Is Not About Asset Classes

The through-line across everything the family does is simpler than a strategy deck.

→  Back people, back them early, stay a long-term partner
→  They were among the first investors in Two Sigma, one of the largest quant funds
→  They were early with Joe Lonsdale at 8VC, still one of their best performing funds

Each asset class does a different job. Hedge funds are for capital preservation. Venture is for long-term bets that carry real risk. And venture, she is direct about, does not scale: "You can't just add more money and more deals and accept the same quality."

That constraint is the whole argument for concentration. The question is not how much to deploy. It is about which managers are going to win, and who you want to partner with for twenty years.

Funds and Directs Are Not a Choice

The family has been in venture for twenty years, starting around 2005 and accelerating around 2015. It came as a natural segue from public markets, when hedge fund managers like Tiger began launching private portfolios.

Today the two sides feed each other:

→  Funds give look-through exposure to hundreds of companies and a network the family could never replicate on its own
→  Directs are reserved for highest-conviction bets, and are typically sourced from the GPs themselves

The honesty here is refreshing. "We don't consider ourselves as smart enough or experts in any sectors." She mentions speaking to an AI infrastructure fund the day before and being clear it is not something she can underwrite herself. So she underwrites the people who can.

80 Funds, 500 Screened a Year, Three People

The division of labour is clean. She runs private markets. Her father runs hedge funds. He no longer joins the calls.

She owns sourcing, diligence, and monitoring across a portfolio of more than 80 funds, with relationships spanning hundreds more and roughly 500 screened every year. The team doing this is her father, her husband, and her.

The leverage comes from two places. AI tooling to automate the operational drag and buy back thinking time. And the GPs themselves, who function as an extended investment team: "My investment team are my managers. The GPs that I back are extremely useful." She does not over-ask, but when she needs a reference on a person or a read on a deal, they show up.

The Invite-Only Retreat

Twice a year she hosts an invite-only family office retreat. There is no membership fee, which is deliberate. "A lot of the other events out there, you're going to have to pay like a yearly membership. This is not really my vision. It's just about me meeting the best people."

The format:

→  Held in Spain and Switzerland, places her family has spent real time, deliberately off season
→  Three days, part hosted in their own home
→  Panels and presentations, balanced with a hike or a yoga class
→  Long meals, on purpose

"I care a lot about spending enough time at the table. This is where you really can go deeper." Attendees, she notes, tend to stay friends for years afterwards.

Building a Fund of Funds That Isn't a Blind Pool

She has launched her own fund-of-funds platform, now on its second vehicle after testing the first in 2024. The family has form here: her father ran a fund of funds from the nineties, giving investors access to Point72, Renaissance, D.E. Shaw, and Millennium. The venture funds the family backed over the last two decades were, in her framing, the pilot funds.

On the standard critique that fund of funds means double fees, her answer is structural. The vehicle mixes fund commitments with direct opportunities:

→  Directs come in at zero fees, or terms like 0 and 10 or 1 and 10, pulling the blended fee down
→  Directs are faster to liquidity than funds, bringing distributions forward in the fund's life
→  The structure is Luxembourg-based, run lean, with capital kept in funds and companies rather than in the structure

But the sharper differentiation is philosophical. "Most fund of funds out there look a lot like a blind pool of capital. They'll talk about some brand names, they'll put some logos in their deck." She is doing the opposite: a small number of families, full transparency on the managers, and shared access.

Every family that invested in the first vehicle has since doubled down directly on funds she backed, and done direct investments alongside them.

"I think we have more firepower investing as a group than investing on my own."

On liquidity, the position is unusually firm: they have never sold an LP secondary position in a fund. If an investor in her vehicle needs out early, she will buy their shares herself.

Why Emerging Managers Beat Brand Names

She is not anti-brand. Families ask about Founders Fund, Sequoia, and Andreessen, and she knows them and could make the introduction. That is just not where the return or the access lives.

The reasoning is mechanical. What she actually wants is to follow on into a manager's breakout companies at Series A or B, at a good valuation. "It's much tougher for a family office to go to Sequoia and ask them space on the cap table." With an emerging manager, that access is real.

What else separates them:

→  They stick to their thesis, while brand names become platforms and drift
→  They stay small. She invests in funds under $100M and prefers under $50M
→  Smaller funds can return bigger multiples

She is clear-eyed that emerging managers are a crowded thesis now. The edge is not the category. It is spotting them early and understanding why a specific one is different.

She Tracks Talent, Not Themes

Asked which theses she is tracking, she declines the premise. "I track talent before anything else. I'm not going to be able to predict what's the next thing."

What she is looking for in a manager:

→  Proof they can source, and a repeatable reason why, not a run of luck
→  No generic claims about working harder or having the best relationships
→  Scrappiness with founders on weekends, on visa problems, on a couch to sleep on
→  Alignment, though she accepts fee-funded GP commits from managers too young to write a real cheque

Most of the managers she has backed recently are under thirty. "You'll think I'm crazy, but they're all younger than me." The family has done this before: they backed twenty-year-olds focused on Berkeley founders, a fund called The House Fund, and remain invested today.

The Pass That Cost Them a 7x

A few years ago they spent real time with a consumer-focused manager doing deal-by-deal investing. Venture at the time was fixated on software. Consumer felt like the wrong direction. They passed on Fund I.

Fund I turned out to be a top-decile 2019 vintage. It sits at 7x MOIC and has already distributed 3x DPI. Real cash, mostly from consumer companies.

"The lesson for us is, don't let the thesis override the actual person. The manager was in front of us. We had already a relationship, but we hesitated."

She has since backed their second fund. And the takeaway is: "The best emerging managers are often going exactly where no one else is looking."

How Not to Approach a Family Office

Her advice for managers raising from families is unusually specific about what fails.

What does not work:

→  Multi-channel desperation. LinkedIn, then email, then again. "That desperation doesn't always attract me"
→  Pitching a family office like an institution, with a long, formal deck
→  Assuming a family office can write a cheque quickly just because it is a family office

What works:

→  A warm intro, which should be easy if you are genuinely in the right networks
→  Personal proof, how you backed people early with your own $5K or $10K cheques
→  Starting the conversation off-market, before you sell a fund
→  Treating the family as a resource, not a cheque. Introductions, co-investments, and background all come with it

"The day you don't see a family office as just a check, I think you understand a little bit the game they're playing."

The Next Gen Question

Families, she argues, are increasingly driven by the next generation, and that generation carries a structural advantage over institutions: longer horizons, faster decisions, relationship capital.

The risk is that too many next-gens are launching their own venture platforms and products with no real edge. Her prescription is to combine family-office patience with genuine knowledge of a specific market. If the family made its money in real estate, that is where the next-gen should build, bringing the tech layer into it.

And the case for letting them try at all is succession, not sentiment.

"You don't want to end up having no one at the end of it."

Rapid Fire

→  Geography: primarily the US, with SF, New York, and Boston
→  Sectors: largely agnostic
→  Cheque size: starts small and builds, smallest $100K into a fund, up to $5M
→  Stage: pre-seed and seed for smaller funds, which is where track records actually get built

Key Takeaways

  • Venture does not scale. You cannot add more money and more deals and hold quality constant, which is the entire case for concentrated bets.

  • Funds buy look-through exposure and a network you cannot replicate. Directs are for your highest-conviction bets, and they should be sourced from your GPs.

  • Brand-name funds are fine to own, but a family office will not get cap table space at Series A. That access is what emerging managers actually sell.

  • Fund size is the return lever. Under $100M, ideally under $50M.

  • Mixing directs into a fund-of-funds vehicle compresses the blended fee and pulls liquidity forward, which answers the double-fee critique structurally rather than rhetorically.

  • Track talent, not themes. Nobody can predict the next thing, so back the people who will be early to it.

  • Do not let a thesis override a person you already believe in. That pass cost them a top-decile 2019 fund now at 7x MOIC and 3x DPI.

  • Never pitch a family office like an institution. Warm intro, personal track record, off-market conversation, and patience.

  • A family office is not a cheque. It is introductions, co-investments, and follow-on capital, and managers who understand that get further.

  • The next gen's edge is family-office patience plus real domain knowledge. A new brand or platform without either is not an edge.

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